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What is Christian solitude?
Christian solitude is intentionally setting aside time to be alone with God without distractions, noise, or external input. It is an intentional spiritual practice done with the goal of being present to God’s presence. In solitude, we withdraw from the world to better re-engage with it through the love and clarity we receive from Christ. For more info and learning on this practice, watch our virtual Study on this above.

I’m already busy and tired, how is solitude not just one more thing to do?
Solitude isn’t meant to be another task, it’s an invitation to stop striving. It’s about learning to be with God, not just do for Him. Solitude can feel like a deep exhale for your soul. Even 5–10 minutes of quiet, undistracted presence with God can shape your day.

What do I even do in solitude?
That’s the beautiful part, solitude isn’t about doing, it’s about being. You might sit in silence, read Scripture slowly, pray honestly, or simply listen. Over time, you'll notice your awareness of God deepening, even in the stillness. But this requires time, repetition, and practice.

Isn’t this more of a monastic or mystical practice?
While solitude has roots in the early church and monastic tradition, it’s deeply biblical. Jesus practiced it often (Mark 1:35, Luke 5:16), and many followers of Jesus throughout history have modeled its value. In a noisy world, solitude becomes a modern act of resistance against hurry and spiritual numbness.

What if solitude feels uncomfortable or even scary?
That’s actually normal. Silence and stillness often surface what's buried beneath the noise—restlessness, fears, even doubts. But that’s where God often meets us most honestly. Solitude creates a safe space for God to tend to your soul gently and deeply.

How often should I practice solitude?
Start small. Maybe once a week for 10–15 minutes. As you grow more comfortable, you can build it into daily rhythms or monthly half-days. The key is consistency, not intensity. Let it grow naturally.

Can I practice solitude if I live in a busy household or tight space?
Absolutely. Solitude isn’t about your physical location but about your posture within you towards God. You can practice it in a parked car, during a walk, in a quiet room, or on a park bench. As long at it is intentional withdrawal from distraction to be with God.

What’s the fruit of solitude in everyday life?
People who practice solitude over time often become more grounded, patient, prayerful, and discerning. It creates margin for the Holy Spirit to speak and forms us into people who live from God’s presence, not just for productivity or performance.